3 REASONS MEN GIVE FOR BREAKING UP AND WHAT THEY MEAN
THE LOVE COACH Matthew Hussey
1 ‘I’m Not Sure What I Want’
Translation: ‘I’m not ready for a relationship with you.’ He sees himself as needing more time to either live as a bachelor or get his career together. He can’t say for certain if he really wants you.
2 ‘You Deserve Better’
Translation: ‘I’m going to hurt you, and if I bail now, I’ll feel less guilty about it later.’ He either feels like he’s taking advantage of you, or he sees he isn’t as emotionally invested in it as you are.
3 ‘We’re Just Very Different People’
Translation: ‘Things about you drive me crazy.’ He’s saying he doesn’t want to work on the problems. He’s throwing in the towel, and he’s probably already emotionally checked out.