3 REA­SONS MEN GIVE FOR BREAK­ING UP AND WHAT THEY MEAN

THE LOVE COACH Matthew Hussey

Cosmopolitan (Australia) - - Sex & Relationships -

1 ‘I’m Not Sure What I Want’

Trans­la­tion: ‘I’m not ready for a re­la­tion­ship with you.’ He sees him­self as need­ing more time to ei­ther live as a bach­e­lor or get his ca­reer to­gether. He can’t say for cer­tain if he re­ally wants you.

2 ‘You De­serve Bet­ter’

Trans­la­tion: ‘I’m go­ing to hurt you, and if I bail now, I’ll feel less guilty about it later.’ He ei­ther feels like he’s tak­ing ad­van­tage of you, or he sees he isn’t as emo­tion­ally in­vested in it as you are.

3 ‘We’re Just Very Dif­fer­ent Peo­ple’

Trans­la­tion: ‘Things about you drive me crazy.’ He’s say­ing he doesn’t want to work on the prob­lems. He’s throw­ing in the towel, and he’s prob­a­bly al­ready emo­tion­ally checked out.

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