My ‘little’ guy
“I can speak from experience when I tell you that there is nothing more humiliating for a guy than having a small penis. I first realised mine is small when I was in the change rooms after footy in
Year 8 and noticed all the other guys were bigger than me. I immediately felt ashamed and like there was something wrong with me.
I thought maybe I hadn’t hit puberty or something and hoped it would happen for me soon. I did get a little bit bigger, but so did everyone else. Now I’m 20, and it’s still very much on the smaller scale. I’ve spent most of my life getting changed really quickly so no-one would see, and I actually get too nervous to pee when there are other guys in a public toilet. I have to go into the cubicle. I know my friends think it’s weird. I recently lost my virginity and was very anxious about it. For me, having sex wasn’t something I was excited to do. I wanted to, but I have to admit I was worried I wouldn’t be able to do it properly. I’m relieved that I can, but I can’t say I enjoyed it, because I was stressing the entire time.” – Jamie, 20.