If you circled mainly You are the peacemaker
You’re a natural diplomat who can see two sides to every story, and come up with a compromise. You’re the one most likely to intervene during conflict to restore harmony. You’re seen as a wise soul, and your siblings regularly come to you with their problems. Peacemakers are often middle children, or the oldest sibling who grew up with bickering younger ones. Your natural diplomacy means you’re comfortable socially and a good team player. You may also find yourself drawn to supporting others outside the family, by fighting for fairness.
How it holds you back: You’re inclined to put yourself last and neglect your own needs, which means your wellbeing can become compromised. You can end up feeling resentful and tired, especially during conflict, and are prone to anxiety.
Losing the label: Your challenge is to try and strike a balance between being compassionate and being a people pleaser. Reduce the time you spend listening to personal dramas and suggest the relevant parties talk to each other directly. Take a step back.