ARE YOU THE BEST YOU CAN BE TO YOUR LOVED ONES?
Relationships are key to life. Life is about being in relationship – we are in relationship with friends, family members, partners, children, colleagues, neighbours, even ourselves. Every man, woman and child who has ever walked this planet craves open-hearted love and affection.
Sometimes circumstances in life are such that we don’t always receive love and affection the way we deserve. We want to protect ourselves from the immense pain. We respond by closing our hearts and begin to look outside ourselves for happiness. Our hearts are broken.
From that exact moment, the moment when we feel let down, the mind takes us on a roller coaster of emotional ups and downs. One minute we feel ecstatically happy and the next we feel depressed and discouraged. We forgot that we closed our hearts and left the most important part of ourselves behind. Over time the lows can outweigh the highs. We become discouraged.
Once we lose ourselves we project our greatness and our most selfish qualities onto other people. We do this with everyone. It is more exaggerated with lovers and authority figures. This creates endless relationship dramas - especially with those we love.
The ego mind always wants to place the blame outside the self. How often do you do this? Sometimes we project our issues so instantly onto others we don’t realise that the pattern is completely unconscious and difficult to change.
If you could grow to the point where you could detach from your mind through observation and letting go, then you could centre your consciousness and personality within your own heart. From that moment complete happiness and fulfilment in this lifetime would follow. So would a great relationship.
Remember that birds of a feather flock together. When you become authentically heart centred everything and everyone around you will change. You will attract a loving and available partner to the degree you possess those qualities.
When you open your heart once again and fall in love with yourself so will everybody else. They will not be able to resist you. That’s because you won’t be able to resist you. Everything you need is within. By gaining this deep respect for yourself through love it forces everyone else to treat you the same. They will have no choice. The Heart of Relationships workshop is a powerful program designed for you to create the loving, passionate and fulfilling relationships your heart desires. Whether you’re in a relationship or not, this workshop is important if you want to be best partner, parent, friend, coworker, family member and, most importantly, the best friend to yourself.
Its purpose is to teach you how to create a field of attraction, giving you the tools to re-ignite the passion and intimacy with your partner, so you can both feel loved and connected on a much deeper, more satisfying level.
This workshop is for you, if: • You’re currently single and you’d love to be in
a loving relationship • You’re in a relationship, but the passion has
gone and you’re not sure what to do about it • You’re still feeling heartbroken about a past
relationship and are struggling to move on • You would love to experience more joy, pleasure and connection in your current relationship • Having a passionate, loving and romantic relationship is a priority for you You’ll discover how to: • Let go of feelings of unworthiness and feeling
“not good enough” • Dissolve barriers to passion and true intimacy
with your partner • Deeply connect with your authentic self and
feel empowered again • Let go of old guilt and shame and experience
more joy and love • Feel more vibrant and alive, so your energy
becomes more magnetic • Create equality with your partner, or potential
partner, which is the foundation to intimacy • Gain powerful insights around your energy field and become more grounded, open and connected within minutes • Re-ignite passion and playfulness in your
current relationship • Get clear on what kind of relationship you’d
like to attract if you’re single • Allow to receive love on a deeper lever — you
can feel more fulfilled • Communicate from a space of humility, grace and authenticity, to create more trust and respect with your partner After starting his career leading large teams in the aerospace industry, Robert realised his greatest skills as a leader were in helping people unlock their potential for success in business and life. Robert brings to his practice academic qualifications in psychology and business; as well as decades of practical experience in both.
In the last 26 years, Robert has worked with individuals and groups around the world. His clients have gone on to achieve extraordinary success.
What if someone’s gross violence is actually meant to show us how ugly that is, like a road sign saying: go back! Examine your own small violence. Don’t snap at the kids, yell at the crazy driver or be brutally self-destructive.
What if you are not who you think you are, and neither am I? What if you are an ageless, timeless soul having a human semester in Earth school? What if the education called life is not to avoid stressful things but to learn to be at peace anyway?
What if stress is nothing more than a conditioned response, one that is not actually arising from life events, but from the way we personally respond to them? What if stress is just the state of consciousness that is fashionably ‘normal’ right now but there are a thousand other choices?
As Mahatma Gandhi knew and we can discover for ourselves: there is no road to peace: Choosing peace in every situation, in every moment is the road. And you know what? When you feel the clench of stress, let it go and make the choice of peace – not only will you feel lighter, but things are likely to end up flowing better than you ever dreamed they could.
What if all this time we have been worrying about nothing?
Om Shanti, Shakti Durga
Join Shakti Durga for Satsang in Sydney. Sun 30 Aug & Sun 6 Sept, 9.30am Henley Community Centre, 1 Crown Street, Henley (Riverside Preschool entrance) All welcome. Details, Shanti Mission What’s On Calendar www.shantimission.org