USE YOUR MOUTH No need to go all 91/2 Weeks, but eating in the bedroom can be very sensual, says O’reilly. A new use for the room can lead to new ways to connect. Try strawberries or grapes; fruit is evocative of sexuality, says Kerner. Not a big fan of food in bed? Throw a few rugs on the floor. (Also good for meditating or floor sex.) FRESHEN UP Mints on the nightstand can’t hurt. Little things – a scented candle, fresh flowers – can create a sensual environment for not much money.