Sunday Herald Sun - Body and Soul : 2020-07-12

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advice “I’ve been feeling very down, but I’m embarrasse­d to talk to my friends about it” In this short paragraph, you have said quite a lot. It sounds like you suffer from some perfection­ism and a slight fear of negative evaluation, which are both common. If we keep striving for perfection and worry too much about what others think of us, it can definitely bring us down. There are many strategies that you could explore in therapy, but I understand you have been raised to think profession­al help is a waste of time and money. You could try an online course instead, such as the excellent programs at This Way Up (thiswayup.org.au). Through this, you could address some unhelpful thought patterns. However, I’d really encourage you to open up a bit more to close friends. Being vulnerable with a few trusted pals will hopefully deepen your friendship­s. Close connection­s with others definitely improves our mood and self-worth. You could also look at balancing your life out more. How much fun do you have? When do you laugh? When are you creative or spiritual? When we are really busy with work and focused on life goals, we can lose sight of the lighter side of life. GOT AN ISSUE FOR JO TO TACKLE? Send your question to feedback@bodyandsou­l.com.au I’ve been feeling very down lately. There isn’t one thing I can attribute it to – I think it’s a build-up of feeling like I’m not meeting my life goals, and having a busy job and also not having a partner at the moment. I’m feeling a lot of pressure to be perfect. I would like to go see a psychologi­st or a counsellor, but I come from a culture where therapy is seen as a waste of time and money. It’s so ingrained in me I should solve my own problems that I’m even embarrasse­d to talk to my friends about all of this. I don’t know what to do. From coping with negative feelings to other vexing issues of a personal nature, clinical psychologi­st answers questions from readers looking for expert advice on social dilemmas and relationsh­ip problems Jo Lamble al Patient ORIGINAL Ave appraisal by dental profession­als Real Patient teeth ALL ON FOUR Healthcare Continuity dental implants ...in 24 Hours We continue to service existing and new patients while taking our usual and extraordin­ary measures to protect each other and the community. Permanent, fixed & reliable alternativ­e to loose dentures or deteriorat­ed teeth from the creators of the exclusive All On 4 Plus system with Newly Discounted Packages Hassle-Free Payment Plans Access Your Super options immediate teeth that are FINAL. FREE INFORMATIO­N NIGHT Wednsday 22nd July 6:30pm 457 High St, Kew 3144 Register today allon4.com.au/seminar allon4.com.au 1300 255 664 Limited Spots KEW | BRUNSWICK | BURWOOD | ARMADALE | BALLARAT Please note: All dental and surgical procedures are subject to suitabilit­y and carry risks. Before proceeding you should seek a second opinion from an appropriat­ely qualified health practition­er, such as those at All-On-4 Clinic. Finance is subject to approval. T&C’s apply. 7 V1 - MHSE01Z01B­S

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