I read your article “The Parent Trap” [ELLE Life, September 2015] and wondered why, in this day and age, you would write about a woman’s struggle to go back to work after children. Why does the woman need to put her career on hold? Where are the men in all this? I went back to my career seven months after giving birth. My husband and I share all responsibilities. And next time (if there is a next time), he will be the one to stay home with our child. I think we need to teach each other and the next generation that we can do whatever we want, regardless of gender. Johann e, laval, que.