Experience teaches wisdom
I don’t think anything is wrong with a man who learns how to send gifts to his beloved from his previous dates. Isn’t it a bonus from the experience of dating? ( Is there a perfect gift? February 22).
My first boyfriend had several girlfriends before me. I bet that is the reason he always knew what kind of gifts made me happy. I never blamed him for utilizing his previous dating experience.
Also, I don’t think a girl should judge a gift she receives from her boyfriend. It is his intention, not the gift that matters. Many girls would think that sending flowers is kind of clichéd and shows that the man is not creative.
But frankly speaking, I was really moved when I received a rose bouquet from my now husband on our second date after meeting.
He is a shy person and confessed to me that it was the first time he was giving flowers to a girl he loves because he would often feel bashful when sending flowers.
In my opinion, it is a big step forward for a man who is not romantic. Even if you don’t like the gift he gives, you should show your appreciation and encourage him. Why be picky with the man you like? Han Ying, by e-mail