Being Good Parents
Most Chinese parents dedicate themselves to the care of their children — in an all-round way. They give selfless love to their children and their grandchildren. Some parents don't care about the quality of their own lives as long as their children live happy lives.
In relationships between Chinese parents and their children, parents often lack a sense of boundaries. They like to ask their children to follow their suggestions. "My father wanted me to realize his dream of studying the Chinese language in Peking University. He was angry when I chose to study history. I love history. Why should I realize his dream?" Li Kabin asked. Chinese parents should give rational love to their children. If they do, they will live more comfortable lives, and their children will live more relaxed lives.