幫Trouble 2女兒

Oriental Sunday Kiss - - Sunday Family -

兩歲的Bella踏入Trouble 2的年齡,開始有主見,懂得say no,易發脾氣,柳爺和柳太現花很多時間與囡囡溝通。「尋晚阿女有少少脾氣,我見到太太同佢溝通嘅過程,見到兩歲嘅佢開始有自己諗法,我相信呢個係長期溝通,我好怕劃條線話幾多歲做乜嘢,幾多歲又做啲乜嘢,我唔相信依家嘅小朋友係要用咁保守嘅方法幫佢做判斷。」Bella比較早熟,思考及說話能力比同齡小孩快,更懂得表達不滿情緒。「依家佢會成日講『唔要呢個』、『唔要嗰個』、『唔好呀!』甚至會有突如其來嘅脾氣,對我嚟講都係學習過程,我唔會話好叻同佢溝通或者開導佢,我都學習緊去了解佢內心世界,同時間幫佢了解自己嘅內心世界。」太太最近透過書本去引導Bella了解自己,已初見成效,「套書講情緒,一套有幾本,分別講angry、jealous、sad、being loved,太太一路同佢講去幫佢了解發生咩事,因為咩事唔開心?嬲唔係問題但要理解同點去解決?」父母面對子女Trouble 2、Terrible 2聽落恐怖,柳爺將之比喻作男女關係,「正如男人都話女人恐怖一樣,係你唔理解女人,你冇去溝通啫,適當嘅溝通、適當去放下你嘅睇法係好重要。」

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