Even if you are a perfectionist who likes to do everything yourself, you don’t want to be the bride who is Smsing the pandit to check if he’s on his way even as you are sitting at the mandap! If you have a wedding planner to handle your wedding, it’s wonderful; if not, make sure family and friends are given specific tasks so that everyone can work towards a common goal. This is going to be the biggest day of your life, so remember to enjoy it. Make a countdown calendar that lists items that should be taken care of month- wise. Start filling it up as you move along. This will help you prioritise your responsibilities, as well as those of your family and friends.