Boost the Build-up

Cosmopolitan (India) - - LOVE & LUST -

One way to get your guy pumped to jump you is lit­er­ally to deny him sex for a pe­riod of time. Berger ex­plains why this works: “If you con­tinue to in­dulge in the same plea­sure re­peat­edly, your amyg­dala be­comes de­sen­si­tised to it—a process called ha­bit­u­a­tion—so not hav­ing some­thing makes it sweeter when you do.”

Try hold­ing out on sex for one week but let­ting him know on Mon­day that you plan on blow­ing his mind on Satur­day, sug­gests Kim­berly Flemke, PH.D., a ther­a­pist at the In­sti­tute for Sex Ther­apy, US.

Then do lit­tle things dur­ing the week to get him ex­cited, like tex­ting him a pic of you in your undies or leav­ing a bag at his place with your bra peek­ing out. An­other op­tion: find a few new sex moves and tell your guy you can’t wait to try them on your up­com­ing one-year an­niver­sary. He al­ready loves do­ing it with you, so that added ‘What’s it gonna be?’ mys­tery will take his build-up—to new heights!

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