Make Him Crave You All Day Long
Find out why getting your guy to focus on a future tryst with you makes him to want you even more...
We were more than just a little taken aback when Nick Lachey admitted on the USbased TLC special Nick & Vanessa’s Dream Wedding that he was psyched to get married to his fiancée, Vanessa Minnillo, in part because she’d promised to finally give him oral sex after they tied the knot. That’s right: in their five years together as a couple, she’d never once treated him to that kind of pleasure. And while that scenario sounds a bit extreme (it’s practically like withholding food and water from a guy), it did get us thinking.
Could there actually be perks to denying a guy salacious activities? So we asked our top experts for their take. It turns out that using her wait-for-it strategy can make men way hornier—a technique called anticipatory eroticism: “When you let a man know about the bedroom bliss in his future, he starts imagining the magic right then, which causes him to want you more,” says Tammy Nelson, PH.D., author of Getting The Sex You Want. That added lust factor makes the sex hotter by the time you hit the sheets, which amps up its addictive qualities. Use these how-tos and he’ll never get enough of you.