Hard-core Camera Flirts
And according to anthropologists like Helen Fisher, Ph.D., it is powerful stuff when it comes to getting guys to crave you.
An Irresistible Cocktail
For starters, this move puts your sexiest assets on display, namely your butt and legs, explains Fisher. “And it’s bold. But because you’re turned away from him, it’s also a tease, and men love that combination. It suggests, ‘Hey, I’m ready for you...if you can catch me’.”
This pose is so innate to females and such an inherent draw for males, it transcends cultures. “It’s a basic female courting pose that’s employed all over the world,” Fisher says. And beyond humans, even animals engage in the behaviour. “When a cat is preparing to mate, she arches her back and tips her buttocks up, often combined with a glance back at the male,” says Fisher.
How to Work It
If you’re trying to grab a new guy’s attention, do a subtle version of this come-and-get-me pose. Arch your back just a bit, and tighten your butt muscles so your cheeks are raised ever so slightly. Then, peer over one shoulder and make eye contact for about two to three seconds. “It’s a real come-hither gesture without being totally in his face,” Fisher says.
And if you want to rock it bigtime, pull out the pose while wearing sky-high stilettos (we suggest Louboutins or Choos). “When a woman wears high heels, her butt naturally thrusts way up, exaggerating the curvature of her back,” says Fisher. “Very few guys can resist this.”
Sofia Vergara lets her curves do all the talking Julianne Hough’s backless dress adds extra oomph Rachel McAdams’ little peer over the shoulder is sooo feminine Blake Lively gets the right lift from her Brian Atwood pumps Kristen Stewart dazzles in Roberto Cavalli Kelly Rowland proves the pose works in a fulllength dress too! Anne Hathaway’s arched back looks hot in an Armani Privé Extra marks to Gabrielle Union for the lacey dress