Radar Gone Wrong
Girl, you are fierce, feisty, and lots of fun. And while any guy would be lucky to have you, assuming that every dude wants you isn’t the right attitude. “Sometimes, really self-assured women project how they feel about themselves onto others,” says Bloom. “You dig who you are and assume that men do too.” But going into a dating situation overly confident can backfire. Your best bet? Get a second opinion. Tell your BFF about your co-worker, and ask if she thinks he wants you. The more you let friends weigh in, the better you’ll become at reading signals.