Own Your Sexuality
Things you know you like Things you don’t like Things you think you might like and want to try
Destroy the lists
They were only meant to prove you have a clearer idea of your sexuality than you think. And that’s not something you want left lying around.
Sometimes we say no…
…when we mean yes, and yes when we mean no. The latter makes us feel especially rubbish but, from experience, the aftershame is always almost worse than the event. Forgive yourself; sometimes ‘no’ feels like such a big deal, it’s easier to say nothing. It’s not pretty, but it’s a fact.
Read erotic literature
It’s better than visual porn for women as it stimulates our imagination to develop whole storylines—starring us!
Do it at different times of the day using different tools (toys, fingers…) at various speeds and in a variety of locations. Every woman should think about owning a bullet vibrator and a rabbit. Masturbation will keep your imagination fertile and your libido high. There’s nobody else to think about so you can concentrate on what makes you tick and how you can bring that to life with a lover.
Make three lists