Own Your Sex­u­al­ity

Cosmopolitan (India) - - LOVE & LUST -

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De­stroy the lists

They were only meant to prove you have a clearer idea of your sex­u­al­ity than you think. And that’s not some­thing you want left ly­ing around.

Some­times we say no…

…when we mean yes, and yes when we mean no. The lat­ter makes us feel es­pe­cially rub­bish but, from ex­pe­ri­ence, the af­ter­shame is al­ways al­most worse than the event. For­give your­self; some­times ‘no’ feels like such a big deal, it’s eas­ier to say noth­ing. It’s not pretty, but it’s a fact.

Read erotic lit­er­a­ture

It’s bet­ter than visual porn for women as it stim­u­lates our imag­i­na­tion to de­velop whole sto­ry­lines—star­ring us!


Do it at dif­fer­ent times of the day us­ing dif­fer­ent tools (toys, fin­gers…) at var­i­ous speeds and in a va­ri­ety of lo­ca­tions. Ev­ery woman should think about own­ing a bul­let vi­bra­tor and a rab­bit. Mas­tur­ba­tion will keep your imag­i­na­tion fer­tile and your li­bido high. There’s no­body else to think about so you can con­cen­trate on what makes you tick and how you can bring that to life with a lover.

Make three lists

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