You Said “I Love You” and He Didn’t…now What?
Ick. We feel for you. Use this chart to figure out your next move.
HOW LONG HAVE YOU TWO DATED?
Less than six months
More than six months WHAT DID HE SAY BACK?
“I really care about you too.”
Bring It Up Again
It sounds like he might be pulling away. Give him space for a day or so, then say this: “About what I said the other day…you don’t need to say it back, but I’m confused as to where we stand.” Then you can decide if he’s worth waiting for.
Don’t Say Anything…for Now
He may not have said those three little words, but it still sounds like your guy is all in. Carry on as usual, and if he hasn’t brought it up with you after about a month, follow the advice above.