It’s our birthday, which means it’s time to be sexier than ever! From foods for your libido to crazy-hot moves, join us on an alphabetical tour of all you need to be a sex goddess.
“Despite the name, it should never feel like a job,” says Ben Rogers, co-author of Going Down: The Instinct Guide To Oral Sex. “You have total control; just seeing your head down there is a thrill for him. As long as your teeth aren’t raking over his flesh, you can do anything and he’ll love it.” In a poll conducted by Cosmo, guys rated their top sex moves, and the number-ones were grabbing his butt cheeks and digging in with your nails while going down on him or putting the tip of your tongue against the roof of your mouth, so his penis hits the underside of your tongue— making him feel like you’re taking him all the way in.