Fact: most women don’t reach an orgasm through intercourse alone, which is why the clitoris is your sexual best friend. To locate your ‘joy button’, feel for a small fleshy formation located slightly above the opening to your vagina (think 12 o’clock). Once you’ve found it, ask your man to try different techniques—rubbing, stroking, pressing down, licking—to figure out which ones you love best. If you find that direct stimulation hurts, ask him to apply some lubricant to his fingers.
EAccording to Dr Catherine Hood, Associate Sex Specialist at St George’s Hospital, London, “The average penis size is 5 inches erect, but as only the first third of the vagina has much sensitivity, anymore is wasted. If your partner has a small penis, a good position is spooning, as this gives deeper penetration.”