No matter how intense a situation gets, you never let people see you sweat—and that’s going to bite you in the butt at some point. There is such a thing as toolittle-drama as well. The lesson: learn to speak up when you need something, and reward yourself when you deserve it. If your guy’s sister needs a place to crash, ask him to come over and help prep. And do something more than eat a damn chocolate bar to cheer yourself up when you’re bummed, okay?