WHY AN SMS FIGHT IS BAD FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP!
The next time you’re pissed at your guy and want to reach for your cell... don’t. According to the latest relationship intel, it can do more harm than you think.
When your boyfriend does something annoying, like cancels dinner plans 20 minutes before you’re supposed to meet up, naturally you’re going to want to call him out on it. So you should send him a quick, drama-free text explaining why you’re hurt, right? Actually, no. If your ultimate goal is to keep your relationship in a good, strong place, you’re better off stifling that urge. “Texted words come through in a vacuum,” says psychiatrist Ish Major, author of Little White Whys. “You have no idea how the other person is reacting, and before you know it, that initial message snowballs into a full-blown text war.” That means you standing still in the middle of a street/ store/party, sending and receiving the kind of texts that can and will be used against you in countless future, love-killing fights.
It all started with an honest mistake...