PROJECT A POS­I­TIVE AT­TI­TUDE

Cosmopolitan (India) - - LOVE & LUST -

“I’d read this book called 101 Ways To Flirt: How To Get More Dates And Meet Your Mate, by Su­san Rabin and Bar­bara Lagowski, that said that “guys are in­trigued by women who ap­pear happy, out­go­ing and en­gaged as op­posed to those who look mopey, an­gry or des­per­ate,” so I de­cided to start my chal­lenge by giv­ing this a shot. I went out for a date with a guy I’d known briefly, and put on my cheeri­est mood. I didn’t bore with him with things like, ‘I had such a rough day,’ and in­stead chose to fo­cus on things that in­ter­ested me. I spent the evening smil­ing and be­ing a pa­tient (and in­ter­ested) lis­tener. I think it worked, be­cause he mes­saged later say­ing that he had a great evening.”

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