End a Fight. Stat.

Cosmopolitan (India) - - MEN & YOU -

So your guy said some­thing hurt­ful dur­ing an ar­gu­ment. It sucks, but in­stead of lash­ing out, keep in mind this find­ing from Bay­lor Univer­sity: when cou­ples fight, they pick up on anger and over­look sad­ness, which es­ca­lates things. So ig­nore his pissy-ness, and ad­dress why he’s most likely up­set. For ex­am­ple, if he says some­thing mean about your skip­ping his work event, re­spond as though he said what he’s really feel­ing—that he’s bummed you didn’t make him a pri­or­ity.

Aw, poor guy just needs a bear hug

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