Should You Give Him an Ultimatum?
Well, Jessica Biel did. She reportedly told Justin to cut off contact with his ex, Cameron Diaz, or she’d call off the wedding. Harsh, but that can be a smart move if you follow these two guidelines.
1. Be Specific
Instead of saying “Don’t hang out with your ex, or else,” let him know what bothers you and why. That way, he’ll be more likely to process your point of view.
2. Don’t Back Down
By putting your relationship on the line and making it clear you’re willing to walk, you’re showing him just how high the stakes are...and how insane he’d have to be to ignore it.
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