Should You Give Him an Ul­ti­ma­tum?

Well, Jes­sica Biel did. She re­port­edly told Justin to cut off con­tact with his ex, Cameron Diaz, or she’d call off the wed­ding. Harsh, but that can be a smart move if you fol­low th­ese two guide­lines.

Cosmopolitan (India) - - MEN & YOU - SOURCE: PSYCHOTHER APIST MIRA KIRS HENBAUM, AU­THOR OF I LOVE YOU BUT I DON’T TRUST YOU

1. Be Spe­cific

In­stead of say­ing “Don’t hang out with your ex, or else,” let him know what both­ers you and why. That way, he’ll be more likely to process your point of view.

2. Don’t Back Down

By putting your re­la­tion­ship on the line and mak­ing it clear you’re will­ing to walk, you’re show­ing him just how high the stakes are...and how in­sane he’d have to be to ig­nore it.

Newly weds Jes­sica Biel and Justin Tim­ber­lake

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Diaz Cameron Diaz

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