There’s a Move
Most guys in their early 20s told us that there’s nothing like a BJ to put them in the mood for sex. But the studs in the 30 to 34 age range? Most of them said going down on you is the best way to get them erect. “Mature men understand that pleasure is better when you’re both experiencing it,” says Kerner.” While only about 23 percent of guys under 30 are open to the idea of your knocking at their back door, almost half the men in their 30s said it’s an idea that they can, uh, get behind. “Older men are more comfortable with their bodies and want to explore different areas,” says Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., author of Touch Me There! Slowly massage his perineum (the tender spot between his balls and his butt). If he doesn’t object, work your way back. 81 percent of 30-somethings said it turns them on to watch porn with their partners—a big step up from 61 percent of 20-somethings. Experts say that’s probably because younger guys are more likely to worry you’ll judge them if they suggest it. When a guy reaches his 30s, says Kerner, he’s confident enough in his desires to share them with you, often as a way to keep things hot in a long-term, committed relationship.