(WITH­OUT SOUND­ING RIDICU­LOUS)

Yes, it’s pos­si­ble. And if you do it right, it’s so, so worth it. Here’s what you need to know.

Cosmopolitan (India) - - LOVE & LUST - By Lux Alp­traum

We all want to be that myth­i­cal sexy girl who al­ways knows the per­fect naughty some­thing to whis­per in her guy’s ear. But in re­al­ity, most of us are stumped as to what sounds hot in­stead of cheesy or porny (sorry, Fifty Shades, you were no help), much less how to feel com­fort­able say­ing it. As the ed­i­tor of flesh­bot. com, I’ve spent the past four years watch­ing count­less hours of porn and read­ing page af­ter page of erot­ica. And yes, I’ve cringed my way through some of the least sexy di­a­logue known to hu­mankind. But I’ve also learned that done right, a lit­tle dirty talk can make an al­ready sexy af­fair down­right un­for­get­table... be­cause it keeps you in the moment. How many times have you found your­self dis­tracted dur­ing a hookup, more wor­ried about how you look than how good the ac­tion feels? Telling your part­ner how awe­some he feels in­side you forces you to fo­cus on ex­actly what you’re feel­ing and helps push away any

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