How to Help Him Help You!
You can get off, just not with him. Sex educator Emily Morse, host of Sex With Emily, on iTunes, is here to help.
Give Him a Hand, Literally
Cover his hand with your own, and use the motion that you use on yourself. Or touch yourself in front of him so he can get a front-row seat to watch what works. Guys are action-oriented, so showing him what you like as opposed to telling him is the way to go.
Focus on You First
Since women tend to take longer than men to orgasm and require a little more effort, the bulk of your sex session should be focused on you. Then, once you’ve had yours, he can do his thing. Also, once you’ve had one, your body is stimulated and primed to have another orgasm with less effort.
Hold His Hips
Guys generally have sex using an in-andout thrusting motion, which isn’t ideal for you. You’re going to have a much better shot if you grab his butt, hold him deep inside you, and encourage him to move in a circular motion. This helps to keep direct pressure on your clitoris.