How to Help Him Help You!

Cosmopolitan (India) - - LOVE & LUST -

You can get off, just not with him. Sex ed­u­ca­tor Emily Morse, host of Sex With Emily, on iTunes, is here to help.

Give Him a Hand, Lit­er­ally

Cover his hand with your own, and use the mo­tion that you use on your­self. Or touch your­self in front of him so he can get a front-row seat to watch what works. Guys are ac­tion-ori­ented, so show­ing him what you like as op­posed to telling him is the way to go.

Fo­cus on You First

Since women tend to take longer than men to or­gasm and re­quire a lit­tle more ef­fort, the bulk of your sex ses­sion should be fo­cused on you. Then, once you’ve had yours, he can do his thing. Also, once you’ve had one, your body is stim­u­lated and primed to have an­other or­gasm with less ef­fort.

Hold His Hips

Guys gen­er­ally have sex us­ing an in-and­out thrust­ing mo­tion, which isn’t ideal for you. You’re go­ing to have a much bet­ter shot if you grab his butt, hold him deep in­side you, and en­cour­age him to move in a cir­cu­lar mo­tion. This helps to keep di­rect pres­sure on your cli­toris.

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