101 Things About Men
3 Date-Night Moves You’d Never Guess Guys Love
Here’s an update from the Random Stuff Guys Want files: these three surprising moves will make him putty in your hands, claims Matthew Hussey, author of Get The Guy. Try ’em tonight, and tell us how it goes! 1. Leaving your phone in your bag
Yes, it says something about our current dating landscape when simply not texting during a date earns you boy brownie points. Disconnecting from technology lets a guy know you actually care about what he’s saying— and assures him that you aren’t halflistening while secretly counting the Likes on your last post about your puppy. In our crazy age of catfishing and drawn-out predate texting, your being present in the moment is the biggest compliment a guy can get. So stop checking your phone, now!
2. Picking the next bar
And no, it’s not just because he likes you a little tipsy. Guys want a break from being the date leader once in a while. Stepping up and selecting the next bar or activity takes the pressure off them, so they feel more relaxed hanging with you. And the ability to make them feel comfortable? That’s what guys find really sexy.
3. Telling him about the guy who just hit on you at the gym
As long as it was a random guy (not your ex), your date wants to hear about it. Why? Because basically, it says, ‘People think I’m hot. I’m kind of a big deal’, but in a more subtle way. And remind us again what guy doesn’t want to be with a smart woman in demand?
Oh, that’s right. No one!