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You love to exchange funny stories with your besties over dinner, and instead of getting your confidence boost by how many Likes you get on Facebook, you take a genuine interest in others. Twenge says that self-aware people aren’t selfless—and that’s a good thing. They tend to be selfconfident, but still stay conscious of how their actions affect other people. This makes them better leaders, good friends, and excellent lovers (go, you!) You’re a giver and a receiver—and that’s the healthy balance you want.