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You’re trying to be a great friend, date, and co-worker, but you’re modest to the point of disappearing! Maybe you learned it’s impolite to brag—and it can be—but you won’t get what you want out of life unless you advocate for yourself. “If you’re putting the needs of others first to the point where it’s undermining your success, make yourself a priority and speak up,” says Twenge. You can be humble and get noticed.