Mental Foreplay, Anyone ?
Meet JASON SILVA, 31, host of National Geographic’s hit show Brain Games. Fittingl he is obsessed with the brain—“It’s your sexiest organ!”—and is here to reveal a few Jedi mind tricks that’ll heat up any relationsh We’re listening!
If You’ve Just Started Dating
Silva’s a big fan of philosopher Rich Doyle, who says new couples should “scramble their egos”. Do things that lower your guard and disarm your selfconsciousness. It brings you closer.
Go skydiving or rock climbing together. Thrilling, fear-inducing stuff amps up your adrenaline, which dissolves your walls and turns you both on.
Reveal your fear of public speaking. Admitting your vulnerabilities makes you seem more relatable, boosting intimacy in you both.
If You’ve Been With Him for a While
To avoid hedonic adaptation—when yo brain adapts to the fam (your partner) and yo senses get less arouse try new things. Doing makes your brain fi pleasure hormones
Watch him make a big presentation. Seeing your guy in his element sparks dopamine in your brain and gives you the hots for him all over again.
Plan a girls’ weekend. Parting ways and thinking about being together later really does make you fonder of someone familiar. Spark, reignited!