ANATOMY OF...THE RESURFACING GUY
“Hey, stranger, free for drinks tonight?”
WHO HE IS The guy who disappears on you after a few great dates, then randomly texts you a few weeks or months later, pretending he didn’t ghost you like a total douche.
WHAT’S HIS DEAL? He’s cycling through women, trying to keep his options open. He’s not into commitment because that means he could miss out on something ‘ better’ around the corner. But he wants to keep you in his rotation— on his terms. That, or he tried to get with another girl, struck out, and is running back to you as a backup.
YOUR NEXT STEP If you ask us, this species of guys should be extinct and you should stop responding. If you want to carry on, don’t expect to be more than one of his many.
SOURCE: EMILY MORSE, HOST OF SEX WITH EMILY ON SIRIUS/XMSATELLITE RADIO