Finds there are more subtle discoveries, too!
Even though my husband makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world, I still can’t turn off my flirt radar. “I went through a phase right after I got married when I would flirt shamelessly with guys when I went out with my friends,” says Priyanka, 32, who’s been married six years. “It feels good to know that you’re still desired.” When you’re a wife, there’s this fear that you’ll lose that something that makes men turn their heads, so you may even go into flirt overdrive. “It’s always nice to be reacted to as a woman,” says Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D., co-author of The Normal Bar. “As long as it’s only a little flirting, there’s no harm done.” “This sounds effed up,” says Nimrit, 29. “But in those early months, if my husband really pissed me off, I thought, I’ll just divorce him!” You might even dream about what life would have been like with an ex—with time, even your douchiest former boyfriend can take on a Ryan Gosling-like glow. But thinking about divorce won’t doom you to it. “Even happy couples have considered