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Psych Up Your In­ner

Mas­tur­bate—be­neath your bath jets, while watch­ing Scan­dal, what­ever works for you—and (lit­er­ally) get in touch with what arouses you. Are you into cli­toral play or counter-clock­wise strokes to your nip­ples? (No need to choose). Find out ex­actly —then bring your favourite moves to this year’s sex ses­sions. Re­mem­ber when you broke your record for most or­gasms in one day, while you were read­ing Fifty Shades Of Grey? Draft a randy read­ing list for 2014—if it gets you go­ing in print, try it IRL. “Fifty Shades is tame com­pared with the Bi­ble of erot­ica, Anaïs Nin’s Delta Of Venus,” says Garima S., 36. So he once sexed an ap­ple pie, but Ja­son Biggs’ lat­est sex­per­i­ment on Orange Is the New Black is ac­tu­ally worth copy­ing. Try edg­ing—touch­ing your­self and com­ing close to cli­max, then cool­ing off (re­peat un­til you’re ready to O). It’s an edgy (get it?) new way of dis­cov­er­ing if you’re into or­gas­mic quick­ies or a slow, sen­sual buildup. “Re­count an ex­pe­ri­ence from the past that re­ally lit your fire,” ad­vises Tris­tan Taormino, the film­maker be­hind the Guide To Kinky Sex For Cou­ples. Was it stress-free va­ca­tion sex (in front of a roar­ing fire)? Try to re­cap­ture the same lazy feel­ing next Satur­day af­ter­noon. Now that you’re feel­ing all turned on and tingly, it’s time to prime your­self for hot­ter hookups. Steamier sex starts with you, so suit up, set the mood, and be­come the sex­i­est bitch 2014 will ever see.

‘She’s for­got­ten to heat the wa­ter again!’ he

thought to him­self

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