CAUGHT UP IN A MOMENT
That guy was ‘just perfect’ when you met him over summer. But often when your dream guy reappears, the initial spark has gone. That’s because the reality doesn’t live up to the idea we’ve created. And, while he sure is a great dancer, the party dude could be a useless conversationalist.
There’s no point in trying to turn someone into your ideal of what you’d like them to be. Don’t waste your time, they’ll only disappoint you.