MELTING POTLUCK
There was a Godfather movie poster on the wall and a DVD of Pulp Fiction in the bookshelf; a TED Talks mug on the bureau alongside a framed picture of the man of the house meeting Amitabh Bachchan; a comfy chair with a cushion reading “friends make the best presents”.
These are holy objects of secular culture. They are not the stereotypical decorations for a prayer room. Yet on Wednesday, they were precisely what surrounded Nazia Erum as she performed namaz during an “interfaith iftar” party at her home in Noida.
It was the last such event in a booming season of them. Earlier this Ramzan, Erum, a Delhi-based 30-year-old writer and clothing designer, had posted on Facebook asking if any of her friends had never attended an iftar. She heard back from over ten times the number of people she expected.
Banding together with 11 other Muslim women, each of whom contributed food or funds, Erum organised an iftar party for 70 people. Many guests had no familiarity with the nightly Ramzan celebration. Some had never been inside a Muslim person’s home. The hostesses set out to dispel increasingly common misperceptions of Islamic life.
Erum was struck by a study, released in April by the Centre for the Study of Developing Societies, which said that only 33 per cent of Indian Hindus have a close friend who is Muslim. What if she could help change that? In addition to organising four events in Delhi, one of which was composed of orphans, Erum facilitated the spread of the interfaith iftars to Mumbai, Hyderabad, and Guwahati. In each city, the hostesses attracted around 30 to 100 people to their dinners and said they were intent on holding more, similar events in the future.
“Things have accelerated in the last few years,” Erum told me. “We are too deep in the s@*!, you can say. We need to save the world one iftar at a time.”
At her party on Wednesday, Erum was an energetic choreographer, directing the placement of numerous dishes, dabbing the wrists of each guest with a homemade attar, giving interviews to journalists from