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I am a 26-year-old girl and have been dating a 29-yearold guy for the past year. We have been very happy, or at least that’s what I thought, until I downloaded a dating app a week ago and happened to find his profile on it. I don’t know why he would use a dating app if he is in a relationship. I was tempted to create a fake account and reach out to him to see if he is still active but haven’t done that because it will make him feel as if I don’t trust him, if he ever finds out. I want to trust him and believe that this is something he just did for fun, but it is beginning to worry me. Should I Why did you download the app? You’re in a relationship with him, too. And, if this bothers you, shouldn’t you tell him why you downloaded it, point out that you found