Pinky Reddy’s life solutions
Stylish ‘n’ sensible, the very savvy industrialist Pinky Reddy helps you celebrate life!
I’m in love with an older man who also happens to be married and has a son. I know that this isn’t right and several people have told me to forget about him. However, he is not someone I can just cut out of my life. Besides this, he is always so loving and caring with everyone around him that I just can’t ignore or change how I feel. Please help.
Rajvi Singh, Mumbai
It seems like it’s infatuation! You seem to be living for the present, but you need to think about society and both your families as well.
After my grandmother passed away, my family has started fighting over her property. It has gotten so bad that it has now been taken to court. My grandmother always wanted everyone to be happy and live peacefully. How do I convince them to resolve this?
Noopur Rajhans, Delhi It’s really sad when a family fights over property. Since it’s troubling you so much, take the lead and call a meeting with the full family. Try to talk things out; make sure you explain to them what is troubling you. Getting a neutral person to arbitrate will also help.
My boyfriend is extremely possessive. He has got it in his head that I’m seeing other people and has even started checking if I’m with who I say I am. It’s very frustrating. But apart from that, he is a good guy so I don’t want to break it off. Is there any way I can get him to back off or is dumping him the only way out?
Shefali Vasani, Surat
If you really love your boyfriend and you are surely not cheating on him, sit him down and talk about it. Try to earn his confidence. But if his behaviour continues, you need to seriously think about whether you want to continue in this relationship.