Being SINGLE in the 20s in this Era
Everyone, no doubt needs a companion to share the stuff going on in one's life and one's mind, to have someone to care. But today this generation finds it extremely hard to survive without such companion certainly because some find it difficult to actually PASS THEIR TIME without such a mate. Some find it boring to be alone, some for their physical needs, some find it even Shameful to have the tag of Being Single while all the other peers in she group are committed. And of course there are those exceptions who actually have found the love of their lives and they are there with their partners because they are meant to be there. Then there are those who are at conflict with themselves about what actually they should do... Stick to the voice inside which says. Hold on.. dont just go for anybody for the sake of being with someone ..or ..go by the rule which everybody is following which is actually to not go by any rule and just enjoy whatever it takes to... Well that may seem right if we focus on YOLO you only live once. But how do we forget that, yes, we only live for once and we should at least be fair and honest to ourselves in the matter of choices we make.
So in this modern world, we have the power to define and even redefine certain things.. For instance, the choice of being single. Being single does not mean you are alone and single.. but it means various other things.
You become Independent to a great extent
And when I say Independent it means a lot more than doing your work all by yourself. It means you become independent in handling, managing and taking care of yourself on your own. You learn to manage all your feelings by your own, learn to love yourself before anybody else.
Your friendship bonds become your strength
Yes – because your time is spent with all of your friends. Your outings, shoppings, lunch dates are with your friends. All your deep conversations about love, life, happiness, sorrows are shared with your friends. They become your life. And these bonds you form become unbreakable. They are lifelong.
You become more conscious about your goals
Being single makes you become more focused. You understand the importance your career is, how important your goals and the hard work you need to put in. And you have enough time to devote to your goals.