It revolves around you.
Women are blessed with utmost confidence, great patience, and immense ability to stand firm in all adverse situations, mainly those living in a male-dominated society. However, when it comes to the family she does not hold only the family smartly but makes the most complicated things easy.
You can give everything to a woman but she could be unhappy and reasons may be many. However, if you view things closely then you will realise that getting happiness is not as hard as you often think. Let’s discuss.
There was a time when India had a joint-family culture. Hence women had less burden on their shoulders. But today’s new trend is to keep a small family and separate living has given freedom to women. Yes it has bound them with more individual pressure because both men and women are working and kids go to school and they unfortunately spend their remaining time in day care centres. This is why the need arises to spend some time with your family and it becomes indispensable when you live separate and get less time to meet your whole family. But family is after all family. So spending time with family definitely makes you forget your pressure, pain and worries!
Your family is the closest bevy of people who can tackle your problems and resolve all issues because no one knows you better than them.
Sometimes you think or believe that the issue(s)/ problems you are facing have no solution hence you cry. But ponder over it because there is no problem in this world which doesn’t have any solution. If you are confused or anxious converse with your husband or whom you trust. But crying is not at all a solution of your worries.
Anxiety enhances pressure on the mind and diminishes your confidence level and you wonder many times how to get rid of it.
Friends and relatives
Today, every second person in India is very close to his friend instead of their relatives! But some people feel the reverse of this. However, in the time of predicament conversing with your friend or relatives this will reduce your mental pressure and you shall feel better. In fact women are more talkative by nature and they know how to diminish the pressure. So fond friends and relatives who are capable of fetching smiles on your face.
It’s our nature which decides that who is better for us so keep a healthy rapport with your friend(s) and relative.
Be happy with small things
Sometimes you get unhappy because you have something but not what you had expected. For example- you have and LED TV of 32 inches but you want a home theatre. Such thinking puts you in an immense unrest mode but stay happy with things which you have now and believe that one day you will buy it.
It’s your mental state or peace of mind which only could give you real satisfaction.
Spend quality time with kids
The most negative or discouraging factor of being living separately is that you hardly get time to spend with your kid(s) and being a working woman you only get Sundays to do all pending work. Meanwhile you have to spend quality time with your little champs. Because day care centres only keep them up to specified time periods but they want true love from their mother, so a few moments spent with your wonderful kids will refresh you.
Kids are precious and think about those couples who aren’t blessed with kids. It means you are very fortunate that you are with kid(s) so you can feel proud on that.
YOUR FAMILY IS THE CLOSEST BEVY OF PEOPLE WHO CAN TACKLE YOUR PROBLEMS AND RESOLVE ALL ISSUES BECAUSE NO ONE KNOWS YOU BETTER THAN THEM.
Never compare yourself with others
Everyone has something which cannot be offered or given to others. Then there is no need to be dejected and never compare yourself with others. It always gives you pain and you will get uneasiness.
Think about it. What do you have it? And do others have? You will be glad once you get appropriate the answer of this question.
Don’t allow people to invade
When something is going negative in your family – your rapport with your husband, brother, sister or mother are souring – and during this critical time you tell the entire story to your neighbour(s). Then what most likely happens is that they may realise some benefits out of it and directly or indirectly invade your privacy. Because you allow them to do so. It would be better for you to keep patience, converse with person with whom you have a bitter relationship and give yourself some time so that things can be resolved.
Outsiders take advantage of your problems, so never disclose or share your woes with those you don’t know or trust.
Don’t be Jealous
Please don’t take it personally but it’s a fact that women are more jealous than men. They may be getting jealous on trivial matters such as a neighbour brought a more beautiful sari, she has a more expensive necklace or she looks more beautiful in jeans and T-shirt she cooks better, and list is too long….
Jealousy is toxic and if you suffer from this, then this will harm you internally, so don’t be jealous. Be happy with what you have!
You are dejected and get jealous despite of knowing what you have! A fine example to understand it more clearly. You are standing in a queue which consists of 10 people your no. is 5. Now you think that four people are ahead of you but have you ever realised that there are four people who stand behind you!
The moral of the story is that you are unhappy that you visit to a restaurant hardly once in two months but think about those poor people who get food once in two days, are you getting my point?
Always think positive
Be positive in life. This will keep you confident and whatever be the situation disappointment will surely not knock your mind because positive thinking generates hope and hope is the key of a successful, happy and peaceful life.
Positive thinking allows us to enjoy life and it gives us a better view to perceive the things.
Does money matter?
Yes, money is an indispensable instrument which mingles and adds a mesmerising joy in everyone’s life. But can money have ample potential to buy all happiness? If this is true then those who have money can only live happily and the rest of the people being can die?
In fact, money is not the real issue. How you perceive money is more significant. Do you see money as a powerful source to live a happy life or only money can fetch happiness for you? Think over!
Those who have money in excess or have ample money for survival are still unhappy because some don’t have kids, some don’t have peaceful life, some people have enough people in the house but they don’t care or give that support to them.
You are the manager of your family and can actually change or make a house into a home and your behaviour or perception directly or indirectly makes a powerful impact on your family.
Seeking happiness? revolves around you.
JEALOUSY IS TOXIC AND IF YOU SUFFER FROM THIS, THEN THIS WILL HARM YOU INTERNALLY, SO DON’T BE JEALOUS. BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE!
Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.