WHY MEN CHEAT ON THEIR PART­NER?

May be sev­eral rea­sons.

Woman's Era - - Contents - Cyn­thia Gomes

Y ou may have al­ways won­dered why peo­ple cheat in a re­la­tion­ship. What fun does one get in show­ing dis­loy­alty to a poor soul?

Yes, there might be sev­eral rea­sons to why one does not want to stay with some­one in a re­la­tion­ship any­more. Then there surely are other ways to end it up, rather than to cheat and get away from it.

Here are a few of the solid rea­sons to why men tend to cheat on his part­ner.

Feel­ing of in­se­cu­rity from own self

It is a ten­dency of most of the men to have thoughts about one­self. They do look at other men’s suc­cess or achieve­ments. There­fore, they con­sider them­selves to be just losers. To feel bet­ter they use pornog­ra­phy, ex­tra­mar­i­tal af­fairs or seek at­ten­tion from ladies.

He’s im­ma­ture from within

Not ev­ery guy gets ma­ture with age. Some tend to re­main im­ma­ture, no mat­ter how old they get.

There­fore, they do not know what a re­la­tion ac­tu­ally means. They might have a think­ing that as long as their part­ner is ig­no­rant of an­other re­la­tion they are not hurt­ing any­body. They for­get that even­tu­ally truth will come to light, no mat­ter how smart they think of them­selves.

Prob­a­bly he’s bored of re­la­tion

It might be pos­si­ble that he even­tu­ally has got ex­hausted or over­bur­dened be­ing in the re­la­tion for a long time. So, just to feel spe­cial he might try out to hit on other woman or any such thing.

He is com­pletely shat­tered

Due to some rea­sons, be it a past ex­pe­ri­ences or any­thing, a guy may be re­stricted from within to have com­mit­ment. They might have got so im­pacted that they end up hav­ing plea­sure out­side his re­la­tion as a way to es­cape from his psy­cho­log­i­cal scars.

THERE MIGHT BE CHANCES THAT HIS PART­NER MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO SAT­ISFY HIS NEEDS EMO­TION­ALLY,

PHYS­I­CALLY OR BOTH. THERE­FORE, HE MAY SEEK TO HAVE AT­TEN­TION SOME­WHERE FROM OR LOOK OUT FOR SAT­IS­FAC­TION FROM AN­OTHER WOMAN.

He ex­pects a lot more

There might be chances that his part­ner might not be able to sat­isfy his needs emo­tion­ally, phys­i­cally or both. There­fore, he may seek to have at­ten­tion some­where from or look out for sat­is­fac­tion from an­other woman.

He has ten­dency to re­main con­fused

As he re­mains con­fused most of the times and so chances are that he might end up get­ting con­fused about love too. There­fore, he might pre­fer to have ca­sual re­la­tion than to stick on to one which needs loy­alty and com­mit­ment.

He might be try­ing to give you sig­nals

Chances are that he might want to end the re­la­tion­ship. There­fore, he is de­lib­er­ately giv­ing sig­nals to tell his part­ner, so that she gets to un­der­stand with­out him telling her di­rectly.

He lacks so­cial cir­cle

He fails to main­tain his re­la­tion­ship with his ac­quain­tances and friends, so tries to find hap­pi­ness from a sin­gle per­son. When the part­ner is un­able to do this, he seeks sat­is­fac­tion from ex­ter­nal sources.

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