A PLAYER AND NOT A KEEPER?

How to know.

Woman's Era - - Short Story - By San­jana Saini

MANY GUYS MIGHT EVEN CLAIM HOW THEY WERE PRE­VI­OUSLY A PLAYER BUT HAVE NOW CHANGED BE­CAUSE THEY WANT A GIRL THEY COULD BE REAL WITH. BUT HOW TO KNOW WHETHER HE’S TELLING THE TRUTH OR JUST LAY­ING HIS TRAP?

Once you have been in the dat­ing game for quite a while, you know that there are a lot of play­ers out there who are just in it till they find some­one new. Ev­ery time this hap­pens, you might be left heart­bro­ken and af­ter a while you are just frus­trated.

Many guys might even claim how they were pre­vi­ously a player but have now changed be­cause they want a girl they could be real with. But how to know whether he’s telling the truth or just lay­ing his trap?

Here are a few ways you can find out whether he’s a player or a keeper.

He’s good-look­ing

Now, this is ob­vi­ously not a ne­ces­sity, but most guys who are play­ers hap­pen to be good-look­ing. Since they get a lot of at­ten­tion from the op­po­site sex with­out even try­ing, they just go with the flow. For them it’s about how many girls they can trap and not about how long they can be with some­one.

He has had a crazy past

If a guy has a long list of exes, he is prob­a­bly a player. Guys who look for se­ri­ous re­la­tion­ship would not have so many girls in the past. If it is oth­er­wise, you know he’s not a keeper.

He is smooth and charm­ing

A guy who gen­uinely likes a girl would be nor­mally a lit­tle ner­vous and might even do stupid things as a con­se­quence of failed at­tempts to im­press you. If this guy is smooth and con­fi­dent, he is a player who is play­ing with you as a chal­lenge to win.

He’s oc­cu­pied on his phone even around you

Girls, this is a ma­jor red flag be­cause if he is busy on his phone all the time even around you, he is cheat­ing on you. A player has many girls hooked around all the time which means that you are noth­ing spe­cial to him. If he smiles each time he sees a new mes­sage or goes to an­other room to an­swer a call, he has things he’s not telling you.

He has a bad rep­u­ta­tion

If every­one around has some­thing bad to talk about him, it’s not be­cause they are jeal­ous of him or you. It’s be­cause they know the catch. They know the kind of per­son he ac­tu­ally is and are just try­ing to warn you.

He doesn’t re­mem­ber de­tails about your life

If he doesn’t re­mem­ber what you’ve told him a mil­lion times by now, it might be be­cause he has too many de­tails to re­mem­ber about too many girls. Don’t you think so?

He doesn’t go pub­lic with you

Whether it is some place on a date or on so­cial me­dia, if the guy is not will­ing to show you to the world, he prob­a­bly has some pretty dark rea­sons. This a red flag and ei­ther con­front him about it or just un­der­stand that there is some­thing fishy go­ing on which you should just quit.

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