5 THINGS YOUR INNER PERSON IS SPEAKING TO YOU
Listen to it.
Are you always struggling to A know how you feel, think, what to do, what you want and what you don’t want? This is because you are not listening to what your inner person is speaking to you. You have silenced your inner voice. This could be because you are living a life that others want you to live. Or that people important in your life are not paying heed or encouraging you to live by your inner person. So others are having more control on you than you on your own self. Your inner person knows you better and tells you what will make you happy. You will be tense, depressed, sick and sad if you ignore your inner voice. As Mahatma Gandhi put, “Everyone who wills can hear the inner voice. It is within everyone.”
Music is your passion but you never got a chance to learn it formally? Since you were busy making your career the way others wanted. But whenever you hear someone singing, your urge to sing strengthens but lack of confidence keeps you silent. Go for what your desires are. It’s never too late to learn any form of art. Join a singing group and give wings to your passion. Or if you wanted to visit a particular place but family was never keen, persuade all and make a plan – instead of giving in all the time to other’s desires.
All have some unachieved desires. It can be learning to do belly dancing, participating in a beauty pageant, learning a language, swimming, driving, starting a venture etc. Life is short and your desires are your own. It takes strong determination and proper planning to go for it.
Living A Meaningful Life
You know the importance of leading a meaningful life by working towards any social cause and helping society at large. You strongly feel for some social issues and want to do something for society but your personal and professional commitments are keeping you busy. If that’s the reason, then you will remain busy all your life.
Taking small steps towards your good intentions will not take much of your time and effort but will lead you towards a happier and more satisfying life.
EVERY YEAR YOU MAKE NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS TO STOP SMOKING OR DRINKING, EXERCISE REGULARLY, CONTROL YOUR DIET, STOP LATE NIGHT PARTIES, JOIN YOGA GROUPS, EAT AT THE CORRECT TIME BUT HAVE BEEN LAZY TO FOLLOW THE CHANGE.
Keeping your feeling bolted inside you for a longer period of time can make you frustrated. You know you hate someone still are maintaining a cordial relation will lead your mind to unnecessarily thinking about the person. Relationships are meant to keep you happy. Whether you wish to connect to your long lost friend, spend more time with your old parents, play with your child, show gratitude to the person who has unknowingly saved you or helped you in your life or people who have impacted you, bring them in your life as they will bring in positivity. And stay away from people who are not good for your mental health.
Release the burden
You are feeling guilty about the way you have hurt someone, knowingly used people for your own benefit, neglected your responsibilities, wrongly blamed people for your failures, punished someone for someone else’s mistakes or have done something wrong that’s troubling you deep inside. Then release your inner person from the burden by simply accepting your fault and apologising. The word ‘sorry’ will not put your reputation at stake and lower your status but will make you respectable in others eyes. It will make people feel that you value your relationship with them. Even a dishonest person understands honesty.
You see your friend being praised for the way she has maintained herself and strongly feel to follow her but kill that feeling due to varied reasons. Every year you make new year resolutions to stop smoking or drinking, exercise regularly, control your diet, stop late night parties, join yoga groups, eat at the correct time but have been lazy to follow the change. Your inner person makes you feel guilty each time Medium size clothes do not fit you and you decide to get in that size next time you come for shopping but it’s the same story every time. It’s time to change the climax of your story.