I’m torn between him and another woman
I have been with my lovely boyfriend for a year. He knows that I am bisexual and he says that he is OK with it. During this time, I have flirted with and kissed other women. I have also had sex with one of them. I didn’t tell my boyfriend. Six months ago, I met another woman who I am really attracted to. I may be falling in love with her and she feels the same way. I am tempted to have a relationship with her, but I love my boyfriend and don’t want to hurt him. I feel torn between the two. What should I do? You are only a year into your relationship with your boyfriend, but you have already been unfaithful with other women. Sex with another woman is still infidelity – unless, of course, when your boyfriend says that he is OK with you being bisexual, he doesn’t mind you having sex with other women as well as him. However, if you thought that, you would have been honest with him. I wonder if you really prefer women, but are staying with your boyfriend because you want to have children. It will hurt him if you end the relationship, but if he discovered your affairs it could hurt him even more. It sounds unlikely that you would remain faithful if you stayed with him or got married.