I FEAR BOYFRIEND MIGHT BE GAY
talk of marriage seems a tad rushed – what’s the hurry if you’re right for each other? However, nothing you’ve said has made me think he’s gay. He might be one of those men who finds public displays of affection hard – not everyone likes to be tactile and show emotion unless they’re in private. But if that’s just what he’s like and it’s something that really bothers you, then it’s probably not going to get better with time. Maybe it’s something you could live with now, but years down the line it could become a real problem if you start resenting him for not making an effort or being romantic.