This is number one on the list because a survey from Harvard, that bastion of professional research, found that the more you ‘stew’ (their word and I love it) the longer it will take before you make your next move. Sounds obvious to me.
How much did that survey cost? But anyway, I do like that the underlying premise here is not to spend time going over the negative in a situation. ‘Why was I wronged?’ ‘Why does the universe hate me?’ That’s a very unsavoury stew. SUPPORT