CAN YOU HAN­DLE IT?

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SO IT SOUNDS GOOD SO FAR? ASK YOUR­SELF TH­ESE QUES­TIONS BE­FORE TAK­ING THE NEXT STEP.

“CAN I TRUST HIM?”

The idea of ca­sual sex re­volves around trust. Not only do you need to be com­pletely hon­est with each other but you need to know that he will not do any­thing to harm you phys­i­cally or emo­tion­ally.

“IS CA­SUAL SEX RE­ALLY FOR ME?”

Are you able to sep­a­rate feel­ings from sex or are you the kind to mix the phys­i­cal and emo­tions? If you’re the pos­ses­sive or jeal­ous type, you might want to avoid go­ing down this road. Be­cause in this sit­u­a­tion, you have to con­stantly re­mind your­self that you are not his girl­friend and have no rights to act as one.

“AM I GET­TING INTO THIS BE­CAUSE I WANT TO GET HIM INTO A RE­LA­TION­SHIP?”

If you have sneaky in­ten­tions for com­mit­ting to a FWB re­la­tion­ship, chances are it’s not go­ing to work. Trust and hon­esty are what you need to fo­cus on, and if you are ly­ing to your­self and to him, it’s not fair for

ei­ther of you.

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