Q What should I do if my partner achieves orgasm prematurely? I feel frustrated every time it happens.
APremature Ejaculation (PE) can be frustrating and even cause resentment in a couple’s sex life. Men with PE are very focused on their sexual performance as they are more anxious than women. When your partner experiences PE, try not to show any signs of disappointment. It puts pressure on your partner, lowers their selfesteem and increases anxiety. Relax and give him some time. He can delay his orgasm by focusing on non-sexual things but avoid thoughts that can completely ruin arousal. Extended foreplay can also help to stave off orgasms. Alternatively, you can always refer to a medical specialist or sex therapist for help.