SIT NEXT TO HIM
This approach involves a little more strategy. You don’t want to be that random girl who sits alone at a table on boys’ night. Awkward. Dr Goldstein suggests finding a way to get him to invite you to his table. If you end up sitting down, read the signs. “If he is chatting in a friendly manner and not running away, then chances are you’re good to go,” she says. If he’s ignoring you, excuse yourself and move on. Telecommunications worker Davide, 22, says, “I would initially like it because of the confidence she displayed, but she would have to have a good reason for approaching me, otherwise she’s a sleaze.” HOW: Take back-up (your girlfriends) and ask if all their seats are taken. If they’re into you (and not off the market), they might ask you to join.