Keep­ing The Girl

CLEO (Malaysia) - - SMART REPORT -


This sounds like aw­ful ad­vice but, in a weird twist, our ex­pert says it’s bang on. “A lot of women are deeply in­se­cure and will de­value a guy who treats them well be­cause they don’t feel they de­serve it.” But she warns there’s a fine line be­tween him play­ing it cool and treat­ing you poorly. Dr McMillan says a guy play­ing hard to get be­cause he likes you is fine, but it’s a “see ya later” sce­nario if he’s dis­re­spect­ful.


Dr McMillan thinks the ad­vice comes from a good place, but it’s not overly wise. “If a guy is at­trac­tive to a woman, she won’t be put off by go­ing to cof­fee or so­cial­is­ing with him and a group of friends – those sce­nar­ios are good ways for women to get to know a guy with­out pres­sure.” As for be­ing an a**hole? “He may end up not hav­ing ro­mance.”

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